Does anyone else think of Legally Blond when they hear about younger SMs complaining that teen 'SKs' aren't treating them like parents instead of peers??? LOL
Be happy and be cautious, those kids may resent you enough to try and kill you... Just joking... Maybe.
Seriously though, they are teens, you are closer to their age then Dad's. Be a friend. Be dad's girlfriend/Wife, Don't try to be mommy.
Mother is the name for God on the lips and hearts of all children. Do you understand? ~The Crow