I've been married for 6 years to an amazing man with two amazing children Michael and Stephanie. we are both grown and out of the house now. for the majority of the time we have a raise them. with weekend visits to their moms who was usually on drugs and up to no good. but they've been very close to her. throughout the years I've done my best to teach them how to be good responsible adults. I try to be the mom that I never had. because my mom was a lot like their mom on drugs it up to no good. I tried to show them love nurturing them. when they came into my life they were both teenagers 12 and 13 years old. we have a lot of bad influences. 2 out their teenage years. their dad is very passive and not very comforting a tional it so ever. and I am opposite. so I didn't let them get away with a whole lot. so throughout the years yes we've had what's up fights. but I feel that the still love me. I may have told me that preciate it me. we both have turned out very well and it makes me feel so very proud I can't help it take some credit for that. the thing is is that sometimes Mimi not understand why I do the things that I do. and from that perspective I may just be a b**** . plus the years I know that their mom has gotten anyhow my step son is getting married in the way a lot I think that they feel that they can't like me or love me too much because it's the train their mom. I think that's what makes it so hard to be a step mother. being a stepmother is being expected to be a mother figure without the authority. but that's not me to me it's all or nothing. anyhow my step son is getting married. and I am so happy for him and for the man that he has become. what is my role at the wedding. wondering if I'm going to feel left out or how to please. I just don't know what to expect. so there is someone who could help me I would appreciate it thanks.
on Jul. 4, 2013 at 12:58 AM