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BM denied visitation again.

She texted DH on Wednesday saying "come get SS." So he said he will be there this weekend. Then she says no, next weekend. Next weekend or sign off all of your rights.

This is his court ordered weekend. The 5th 6th and 7th.

She told us she was living at her moms. (Her mom says she doesn't live there. They really need to get their stories straight if they're both going to continue to lie to DH.)

Since Wednesday he has been telling her he will be there at 6 on Friday. And she told him that "since he hasn't been taking his visits, he can go back thru the courts and go back to supervised visits because SS doesn't feel comfortable with him anymore".

Last time we had SS was June 5th thru the 9th. We had made arrangements to have him the 19th thru the 29th. But at the last minute BM said no (even tho that weekend was DH's) and BM's mom told us BM was out of town with SS. (We have msgs from BM probing she was not out of town.)

He's missed 2 weekends before but he made them up the following weekends.

So really, that last one is the only missing weekend.
I have it all documented and cross referenced with text messages confirming he was with DH.

I don't know where she gets off thinking he's going to back to supervised visits. (She still doesn't know about the court date in sept) :\
by on Jul. 6, 2013 at 7:49 AM
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by Platinum Member on Jul. 8, 2013 at 3:44 PM

Yea. He's the current CP and BM gets EOWE, half of summer, and alternating holidays, as well as has joint decision making rights.

Quoting AtillaTheHun:

So this is basically a modification of an already existing CO. What your husband is requesting does not appear to be unreasonable. I hope it will work out for him!!

Quoting Tinkerbellmama:

Oh, he's also including that any parent seeking urgent/emergent medical treatment for SD has to contact the other parent within 1 hour.

And that he has to update BM about any and all medical appointments within 24 hours of the visit, and that he is to update BM monthly regarding therapy.

There's a few other requests he's making, but those are the most important. 

by on Jul. 8, 2013 at 5:22 PM

No we camped... No hotel. 

Quoting Lauren79:

If I read one of your responses right you stayed in a hotel correct? If that's the case, they will show that you were there checked in on 7/5 and out on 7/7 and it should show times, not to mention when they ran your card upon check in it would have the time. 

Viola, proof you were in town when you said for said weekend visit. 

Quoting mouthyhousewife:

I don't know. I think I could dig something up. A gas receipt. The credit card statement. Etc.

Quoting Polkadotted:

Did he get a receipt from somewhere showing he was in town close to that time?

Quoting mouthyhousewife:

Showed up to her moms house. On time. Her dad said she left 2 hours ago, he doesn't know where she went. But we're staying in town all weekend so we will likely see her around.

Wednesday she told DH she was going up north for the weekend. Thursday afternoon she said she was already up north but later that night said she was heading up Friday morning after she goes down to FOC. Friday morning she said she went down to FOC and "put a show cause on" DH and she was on her way up at that moment. Then at 6 Friday her dad said she took off on foot 2 hours before we got there.

Quoting Polkadotted:

Did he show up there on Friday?

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