Sd9 who has started getting nasty towards me & baby so I was surprised when dh showed me a txt from sd asking him to bring the baby to her for a park date. Sd lives 3 hrs round trip and I plan to breast feed. Dh said I would have to go. Sd didn't like that. So dh said I will pick u up and bring u to the hospital to meet baby.
Sd called back and said "MOMMY WANTS TO COME TO THE HOSPITAL" wth is bm thinking. She comes near me & she's violating the order. What bm would ever want to intrude on such a personal time between me & dh. I don't ever want that crazy woman near my defenseless baby!
We are relocating 1300 miles away 1 after baby gets here so I want dh to spend time with sd. But there's no way I will allow my newborn to go 3 hrs driving and a few hrs at a park without me. For gods sake she's going to need to be fed and only I can. Further more bm has threatened harm on my baby I don't trust bm isn't setting up dh to get her hands on my baby and follow through with the threats!
Update. After bm volunteering 5x to bring sd she finally got it through her head and agreed to let dh get sd for the day!!!! She kept digging for info. And then said "I don't mind going I know what it's like to have a baby alone" she had an emergency c-section that dh didn't get to hospital in time for. Whatever. At least plans are made and its a good compromise.