SS, 5, is starting Kindergarten this year. The current CO has it to where the kids are with us for two weeks and then with BM for two weeks. I think the flip flop is hard on the kids and consistency is very important. I suggested to BM and DH that when school started, they should consider fixing the agreement to where SS will be with one parent during the week and the other parent on the weekends and for summer. That way he can get the consistency he needs. He is very behind already and I think he will just fall further behind once school starts. Of course I can't make either parent do anything and although they both agreed it was a better idea-neither one of them has discussed it. Has anyone had to deal with this type of arrangement before? I think it is going to be a disaster.