I know that in the hispanic culture this is a very big deal for them and I would never want sd bm to miss it. Dh said sd would have to go down for about a week or so to.work with a cartographer to learn some dances. He was thing of sending me down with her since I don't work and he would have to take a bunch of time off. I am seriously considering asking bm if she wants to go instead. I can't decide. I want to go to but I also think since bm speaks spanish (she's Guatemalan) she can express sd wants better.