Dh knows ss is embarrassed about it so I act like I have no idea ss wets the bed.. But I'm at my wits end. He used to have that more under control.. Dh would tell him to go to the bathroom before bed. Since ss is embarrassed and doesn't know I know he wets the bed, I can't tell him to change his shorts in the morning. What grosses me out is I have a17 month old boy who sometimes plays with ss and once ds gets off of ss's lap he smells like pee too.
How would you handle talking to dh? I don't want him to think I'm picking on ss.. But there has to be something done about this. My whole house is starting to smell like a cat piss house and I can't deal. I'm so neat freak and clean its unreal!!!