I have a 1 year old son with my hubby and we get his two daughters every other weekend. They are 4 and 2. I want to start trying for a second baby (it may take me a while to conceive because of fertility issues). I don't want to wait too long because I'd like my kids to be close in age, but my hubby thinks it's too much right now with the girls. I see his point, and it's true that my son and my stepkids are close in age, but we only get to see them twice a month and I guess I feel a little cheated that it's preventing us from growing our own family. Maybe another baby soon would be too much for me anyway? I don't know if I'm being selfish or what. So confused.