Last week, we took family portraits, one with DH's parents and hung them up in the living room. Today, BM's mom sent an email to DH (cc me), stating that when she is in town with her husband (BM's SF), she wanted us all to take another portraits and she said "my grand daughters miss me. I want to leave something in your house for them to remember me by". She offered to pay for the portrait.
What is your answer? What should be the answer? Just for the record, my husband said no. I agreed. We haven't found the word to say no to BM's mom yet.