no one wants to say anything! BM that is. Both I and BM's sister are pregnant, due within days of each other. It just happened this way. BM is beyond upset, she has been asking SF for about 2 yrs for another baby, and he says he is done, no more. So she is taking it out on any and everyone, and everyone is frustrated. SD got the crap smacked out of her on Monday when she told BM she heard the (our) baby's heartbeat; DH was furious as SD doesn't get why BM was so mad. She trashed her sister's car's car out of jealousy b/c "she did it on purpose"(getting pregnant), and SF verbally attacked DH saying if he "had kept it in his pants, no on would have to deal with her(BM's) shit." Everyone is content to just let this be, and I was til yesterday, when she called and let a nasty message on our machine saying she's sorry ALL our babies didn't die. ( I was having twins, but miscarried only one.)
I am just frustrated, and mostly need a vent, but... me getting pregnant is MY business, not BM's, I didn't need to consult her, ask for permission, and I feel SO badly SD is getting some of BM's lashing out.