I have been divorced for almost a year. The divorce it self took about a year. So you firgue it has been 2 years since all this started. During the separation/divorce it comsumed me. I thought about it all the time. I couldn't sleep. I was sick more in that year than I ever been in my adult life. It was an ugly divorce me and my exh were fighting for custody and exh fought dirty. In the end my exh was awarded custody of my kids. I got them EOWE. In the process my exh Parent alienated my son who is now 14. And we also have a daughter who is 7. Right after the divorce I was still consumed by it but after awhile I learned to accept things the way they were. Summer came and things go better I got to see my daughter more. My son I still barely talk to and he hasn't come to my house in over 8 months. Just this weekend I got my daughter and she told me that exh is moving in with his gf. I asked when and she said she didn't know. GF lives an hour away from me. I asked well school starts soon are you switching school and she said no not right away. I will start at old school and then switch later on. Ever since then this has consumed me. It is 2am and I can't sleep because I am worried that I am going to loose my daughter to exh. In our divorce decree it states that he can't switch schools without my approval. We have joint legal custody. But I can totally seeing my exh just moving them without telling me. It also states that I have to do all the driving to transport the kids. Right now we live 20mins away so it is fine. I don't like it but I can do it. I don't want to have to drive an hour each way to get my daughter. I don't know how to stop this from happening. Money is tight and I don't want to have to call my laywer if there is nothing I can do because I heard this from a 7 yr old. But I also want to be 1 step a head and I want to be smarter this time around. But I also don't want it to consume me again. I feel like I just got my life back and now this. Has anyone else gone through this. Any advice out there.