There are many women on this board who say they help with homework, cook, clean, take the kids where they need to go, etc for their husband when he has custody.
Yet, the moms on here who have custody have stated they do the "work" ... they do the errands, the caretaking, etc.
What is the difference between women putting in the effort when they have custody vs. men putting in the effort when they do?
And let's just cut out the bs excuse of he has to work because moms work, too. What is the real reason these SM's are doing the work for their husbands?