A SM is posting that she and DH have a problem with DH's 8 year old DD showering with BM.
SM says BD has talked to BM about it, and BM claims that she can legally shower with the child until the child is 14 and that dad needs to just shut it. SM thinks this is a reason for dad to fight for primary custody.
My DDs are 5 and 6, and there are times when I put them in the shower with me.
I told SM that most likely she's going to get varying views on it; some people are going to think it's terrible, while others aren't going to see a problem with it at all.