And it didn't work. BM kept SD9 this past weekend for a family event, and in return, DH got SD Mon. morning thru Thurs. morning, partly for make up time, and partly so we could get SD new socks, undies, etc. for school. I work 6a-1p, and DH works 2-10p.
I was at the store when I got a phone call, and the man identified himself as Police Officer R, and wanted to know if I had SD. I said yes, and he wanted to know why I was refusing to return SD to BM. WTF? Turns out, BM wanted SD today, like, now, and decided to just show up to get her, no call, text, smoke signal, nothing. I wasn't home when she got there, and I guess she waited "awhile", and when I didn't come home, called the cops. BM told the cops I wasn't returning her calls or texts. Ummm, I never got any, and showed/gave the officer my phone. BM then tried to tell the officer I must've gotten my number changed, and didn't tell her. I have had the same number for years, and BM knows that, and I even showed the officer where BM had called me earlier in the week, on my CURRENT number. It was very frustrating, I have no idea WHY she did this other than to be a bitch, and all she did was get herself into trouble and look stupid. SD did go with BM, but w/o her new stuff b/c DH gets paid tomorrow, and was taking her in the morning.