Clearly I want to stop the behavior and am needing help.
BM texts the SD in the mornings bashing her boyfriends son to her own daughter. I feel this is her way of keeping a mother daughter relationship. I don't feel it's right, and I don't want my SD thinking its ok to just make fun of people and get in on any bashing at that. So this morning I said" would you think it was ok for me to bash you to people?" She said, "no I wouldn't." I said, "then why are you doing it with your mom?" she said, "I dont know." I don't clearly know how I am to react to this or if I am over stepping my boundries. SD states that her mom texts her those things all the time and she doesn't know why she does that. I said well just think how you would feel if it was being done about you. I dont want her to look at her mother badly for doing this but I dont want her to think its ok either. Anyone any advice?