SD9 didn't come over this weekend. BM refused to allow DH to take her, and DH was extra pissed b/c it was his first weekend off in 3 months. BM called last night and talked to DH. BM and SD apparently "had a talk" and they have decided that SD is old enough to decide if she wants to come or not. BM told DH SD wants to only come around holidays and her birthday. "SD's" reasoning for this is that she is tired of sharing a room with DD, she doesn't like the rules, and we no longer have cable, we have Roku/Hulu/Netflix.
DH said that SD really has no say, they have a CO. BM said oh well, she will call the cops if DH comes oh her property, or sits in front of her(sisters) home. DH also said he wasn't buying gifts and such on holidays if that was the only reason SD felt the need to come over, as it seems from when she wants to come.
Besides document, what else is there to do? How long do we let BM/SD not come over before its enough to file something? We are at a loss, and DH is simply exasperated that BM is allowing this.