I'm sorry but I keep seeing all these posts where people say they are getting bashed.
Putting up posts that condradict what a poster is saying is the truth isn't bashing. Its pulling up information that a poster posted before so everyone gets the whole picture.
Getting constructive advice such as telling a SM not to get all upset and confront BM about underwear and to stay out it is not getting "bashed". Its people who were in your situation telling you what helped them in the past and giving advice that worked for them.
Not trying to force a "family" with grown up children is not getting "bashed".
There have been times I will admit that I got my panties in a twist a little bit but a lot of these ladies here are just blunt and honest and if you actually listen to what they are saying they are giving good advice.