Well, ncp (bm) gets Labor Day and thanksgiving in odd years.
Cp (dh) gets Halloween and Christmas.
We have not observed Labor Day as a holiday that falls under the holiday schedule in the past. However, this year bm has decided she WILL get Labor Day. Does that mean we now default to Halloween and Christmas for the second year? And does she have an argument to come back and throw a fit in a couple months when she figures out that she just changed the holiday schedule for the rest of the year?
I also posted this in MC hoping I may get more responses, but it's pretty dead this morning