I thought it was common knowledge that a stepparent should not spank their stepchild. Sheesh.
If you are a CSM with NOOOOO BM in the picture, then I guess I can accept that.
BUT BUT BUT.....if there is a BM who tells you that she does not want you to spank her child, then WHY on earth would you continue to spank said child???
Oh, and for the record, 12 year olds are too old to get spankings. I mean, really. In fact, I think spankings have a very small window of effectiveness in the first place and if you have to spank your 12 year old, then you have already screwed up big time.
That is all. Carry on.
Happily Married | BM to DD14 DD14 DD12 | Mom to DS7 & DS4 | CP | Not a SM