Today Bm came down to visit the new place and to pick up SS7's school clothes money.
We sat chatting while DH was waking up/getting dressed.
All 5 of her kids went back Wednesday to school-she told SD12 and SS7 that DH will only allow them 1 EC this school year so it doesn't interfere with vistation. BM agrees.
SD12 is doing cheerleading, ss7 is torn between wrestling and baseball.
SD12 is a very active child, she's always been into gymnastics/tumbling/cheer. This year all 3 of BM's girls are in cheerleading.
BM was explaining about competition-having to be there literally all day long because she's got all 3 girls enrolled.
Dh mentioned he was glad he didn't have to deal with a "room full of drama queens" times ten of SD12
BM and I just looked at him. I asked him if he was gonna attempt to attend practices or competition, he rolled his eyes and was like "HELL NO!"
Wrong answer buddy.
Bm and i both got on his ass about that. And BM's right-he attended all the practices/games for SS7 when he does baseball-why can't he do the same for SD12?
I told him straight-you can't favor you son over your daughter. I know she's not your blood, but she is still your daughter and wants her daddy there for support!
I told Bm to let me know the schedule as soon as she could-and I'll make sure we clear time for SD12. This is something that child is passionate about other then her drawing,damn it I'll gladly support her in anything that makes her happy!