My ex has a new girl around, he says there not together, but I could'nt care less about that.
My issue is, the liberties he lets her take with our son. This woman is from the same small town I'm from, so I know quite a bit about her. Things that he seems to not know. Like her extensive history with herion use and being in jail for prostitution. She doesnt have custody of her four kids for those very reasons, but she seems to think its ok to try to parent my child like I'm not there.
Yesterday ex was dropping off DS, and she was with him, ex handed over son and while I was holding noticed he had a dirty diaper. I was about to lay him down to change him, when she jump up and grabbed me from him and proceeded to change his diaper, and went into his room and picked out a clean outfit for him. I was really shocked at how forward she was being. I just stood there trying to tell ex I wasnt uncomfort with her in my house, she walks up saying that I'm nasty cuz I bathe with my child, and obviously need help in caring for DS.
I was pissed and told her she needed to leave, and she tried to leave with my son in her arms. I'm seriously freaked out. I think ex is talking shit about to make me look incompetent, and she's trying to push me out of the way. She's been around my son for about two weeks now, and she's trying to teach DS to call her Titi.
Ex, and I have been seperated since March, but are still leagally married. Can I just not let him take DS for visits anymore? I've been saving up so that I can get a lawyer, but it'll be awhile before I can actually afford going to court for the divorce and custody.