My Dh has a 6 yr old with his exgirlfriend. Hes been trying to get visits arranged for the past year and a half. Bm Always says well let me talk to my husband about it and to call her back. So when Dh calls her back, its the same story, Bm's husband doesnt think its a good idea because he wants to spend time with SD. He lives with SD, he could spend time with her at any given point of the day. Dh asked for Christmas break, and he got told that SF's family has plans for the next 3 years for any and all school breaks and Dh should check back at a later date. Than she made the comment that SF is raising her so he has the say on when she sees DH. So Dh asked if the SF was willing to adopt SD since he was so interested in being daddy and that his relationship with SD went down the tubes, with the refusal to let him see her. The answer Dh got appalled me. SF wont adopt because than the CS goes away and he uses the CS to buy his ciggerttes.
Lets get this straight... SF wants to play daddy and doesnt want SD's dad to be a part of her life, but doesnt want to take the inciative to make it legal... O.o
Thoughts anyone?? We could use them right now.
And all this started when BM married this guy, a year and a half ago! Its rather annoying.