I made a post the other day that kinda got out of control but maybe more so in a good way than a bad. Although, I was a little dishearted at first. I kept rereading some of your (in general) answers. I decided that I was sick of talking about our relationship. I decided to let him read it.
I asked him to read the entire thing, the whole 70 some odd answers. Your answers, my answers, etc.
I think he was taken aback by my answers to things. Maybe some of y'alls too.
Saturday morning, he watched the baby while I took my older son to Karate.
Today, I went out for most of the day while he took care of the boys. We both did a few little projects around the house together. He is helping me with a huge pile of laundry that needs doing.
He promised to take at least 1 weekend day, and 1 weeknight with no overtime.
He told me he was sorry I felt that way and he never meant to. He said we will work something out for Wednesdays but he has to talk to his ex wife first. (She is changing jobs and may need him to change his days, she called about it yesterday apparently.)
He said he didn't mean for me to feel that way.
I don't know- only time will tell if they are lasting changes or just "trying to make me happy and shut up" changes. So, thank you- for making me face some facts and also for helping me to communicate with him in a more effective manner, even though that wasn't the point of the post.