I am 29 and have 2 kids of my own and a SD. Me and my DH do not have any kids together and have had talks about but I'm starting to think that we've been together for 5 years and we're not going to be having a baby together which I am fine with. I am on the pill now and Im tired of having to take it every day or just remebering to take it every day and started looking into other opitons. I am at the point were I don't want anymore kids so I have been looking into the Essure. Has anyone had this done and if so how was it after pain wise and have you had any side effects from it.