Sd11 has not been to our house in roughly 5 or 6 weeks. Her behavior here was getting out of hand so dh decided that, since she didn't want to be here and bm is not coparenting with him, he would let her go to every other weekend. Then she didn't want to come so he didn't make her come. He talked to her a couple times a week. They are supposed to change the co. They haven't yet so they both still have 50\50 physical and legal custody.
I go to pick her up. Bm hands me a bottle with her focalin. I ask where is the risperdal. She says,"oh we took her off that." we meaning bm and SF. She said psyche dr said she could try her without it and see "what happens." I assume dh knows this because she is supposed to consult him on these things and they are supposed to decide together. She was on it for aggression. She beats on her little brothers here and came after me when I was pregnant. And there were a few incidents at school. Also the doctor had upped her dose just a few months before because her behavior was getting worse.
so I am a little worried. I don't know if they just stopped cold turkey or weaned her like you are supposed to. I don't know if she is going to be ok without it or flip out on someone. I told dh that he hadn't changed the co yet so I didn't think changing visitation and such was the best idea til he does get the co changed. I just don't know. I hope she will be ok. Justworried.