My fiance has primary custody and bio mom has visitation. I am a sahm to stepson. I am primary caregiver. I feed him, bathe him, put him to bed, teach him, etc. My mother has said that I should get a job because I am not stepson's real mom so its not my responsibility to take care of him. I set her straight about this. Maybe he did not come out of my body, but he is still my son. When she introduces my stepson she refers to him not as my son or stepson but "some kid I take care of". Rubs me and fiance wrong.
Once this baby is born, not biologically my fiance's, if she treats them different, she will not see either of them. Some people I have told this think that this is selfish of me to do that to my kids for
them to never see their grandmother.
So my question is, am I in the wrong?
on Sep. 14, 2013 at 4:20 PM