ok I wrote a post and it disappeared!!!
Short story I lie to my kids about how and when Chucky cheese is open I despise that place because of the fact that every time I have been there people don't pay attention to their child's bad behaviour. Any ways I was discussing what to do about my kids upcoming birthday and some one suggested that and I said no and explained well that convo morphed into this.... A co workers DH and his EW have been lying to their ODD about their date of marriage they pushed it back a year because ...GASP BM was pregnant previous to saying I Do !
Now SM wants to tell SD 12ish about the lie!!!! I asked her why would she do that to a child much less a child that is not hers! her answers range from, she deserves to know, BM made a fuss that SM was pregnant before she and DH got married and SD has snarky things to say about it! and it just wrong to lie!
I agree it a stupid thing to lie about but SD might very well be hurt if she ever finds out and I do understand SM problem with this but I wont be solved by telling SD about it !
I cant convince SM not to say anything she seems hell bent on saying something and we are not freinds outside of work ...
So what is the biggest lieshavebeen told your kids/ skids?