my boyfriend has a 14 yr old son. He repeatedly pees on the toilet seat and the only way I can use it after wards is to clean it off myself. I have repeatedly asked my boyfriend to talk to his son to either clean up after himself or get a consequence, but nothing is working. He has asked him to stop, gotten annoyed, left him reminder notes, made him clean it up, asked him to at least lift the seat...nothing is working. it is our only bathroom so what do we do? i have lost my patience and everyone knows it by my reaction. now what?