BM falsely accusing us of having sex in front of SS.
I will try to make this as short as possible.
I have been with my S/O since his son was 9 months old. His son will be 3 in November. BM has always hated me and every now and then will try to fight me (like, after court, which I wouldn't even have to be present for if she would stop making up false allegations to defend myself). She is ghetto and psychotic, and most definitely bipolar and it shows. Anyways, when my SS was about 1.5 years old, he was taking a nap and so me & my S/O thought we'd have a quickie in our room. Apparently he woke up, and opened the door so we stopped and got dressed and took care of him. About 2 months later, she asked my S/O if her son had ever been exposed to us having sex, and he told her what happened and how we stopped IMMEDIATELY. Coincidentally, 2 months after it happened and she found out, she started saying her son was "lifting his shirt up and making humping motions" so we MUST be having sex in front of him all the time... wtf.
She threatened to use this in court but luckily was never even put in front of the judge to do so because she dropped that part of the case. Fast foward to this month. I have been watching SS for 18 days in a row because BM had military training elsewhere, and my S/O had to work. My S/O and I have been so busy that we only had sex like 2-3 times a week, at midnight or so, when SS is LONG asleep. She got him back on the 18th, and then on the 19th, she blows up S/O's phone saying her son is trying to hump everyone and keeps trying to lift his shirt to do so. She is accusing us of explosing him to us having sex. We feel she is doing this to start a case so S/O loses visitation.
Here's my thing. My SS didn't even see us makeout, much less having sex. He's never done any of this humping crap that she keeps talking about, and we asked our roommate if he saw anything and he said no. We asked a lady from church who babysat him 4 times if she saw anything, and she laughed and said no. He is a happy child who has never tried to do any of this. So now she is throwing around all of these accusations and if she actually goes to court, that is technically sexual abuse to a child (if they believe her) and would ruin my career. I am a registered nurse in labor & delivery and I cannot have sexual abuse to a child on my record. She already filed 2 false counts of domestic assault on my S/o (who wouldn't hurt a fly and we have proof that they are false charges... court is in a couple days for that finally) and they were upgraded to a FELONY.
Anyways, does anyone have any expierience with this, if so, are her accusations enough for a judge to believe? Thank you.