I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over 2 1/2 years now. He has a daughter that comes to our house on the weekends and has been for a while now.
My issue is not with the child, its the BM. One day she will jut randomly text me or tag me on Facebook and talk about how i am wonderful for her daughter and she is glad i am her stepmom and how beautiful and creative i am, etc. Just completely full of compliments. Then the next time she talks to me she is just rude to me. I received a text from her telling me that i will never be anything more than daddies girlfriend and that i need to stay away from her daughter.
She just makes me feel uncomfortable and i dont know how i am supposed to be when her daughter comes to our house, and when we go pick her up. My boyfriend basically wants me to be fake around bm so i dont cause any problems between him and bm, to where she wont allow their daughter to come stay with us.
I am not sure how to handle things