Excuse the absence lately, had my baby girl on the 6th so I've been a bit distracted from CM ;)
So here it goes...
Husband recieved court papers about changing the parenting plan. I'm sure some of you remember me saying that the BM married a man who beat and raped his wife (now ex wife) in front of their two young sons. BM and him met right after he got out of jail for it... So anyway, there is a court order where my SD isn't allowed to be alone with him without the supervision of her mother AND grandparents. Well these papers are indicating that she wants to change that now that she has two sons with him and has some sort of "proof" that he is no longer a threat. Oh, ok...I guess the fact he hasn't raped you, yet, is proof that this man is ok to be alone with SD? Sounds good! ~eyeroll~ Yes I know it's a little cynical and I could be overreacting...but sorry, I don't really trust men who rape.
Goes to add more crap in there about DH's legal issues(traffic stuff) that he is working out and almost done with and then also BM complains that there is no communication between DH and her. HAH! WTF?! This woman will not speak to my DH, she won't give him her cell number and he has to call the grandparents house, not always getting in contact with her. She wants him to have weekends while she gets her all week....so meaning she can file for child support since she would have more time with her. Complains about the couple times he didn't take SD to pre-school last year. He would stay with me in the apartment I had so he could save money getting to work (I lived in the town he works and his town is 40 miles away) and SD stayed over as well so my girls and her could play. Yes, some of you may not agree with what we did, don't care, that's not the point right now. She says he didn't pay...well he did and what is it to her that HE didn't pay the pre-school his share? How does it affect her? It doesn't. The School has it on record that it's HIS repsonsibilty so there is no punishment or whatever to her if he didn't pay his half.
I don't get how she can be all up in my DH's life, try to get every little fact about it but when it come to her's...he has no right to know anything that's going on? When SHE is the one who married a man with a court order against him. I am just so pissed that this woman thinks she is acting in the "best interest" of her child, as the court papers say, when she is hurting her daughter by trying to take time away from her father and put her in the home of a convicted sex offender.
I'll probably get some of you standing up for her...but don't care. I think this is fucked and we are going to fight it with all we got. I'll start working at the end of October and I don't care if my whole check goes to a lawyer.