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BM is coming back

Posted by on Sep. 28, 2013 at 11:35 PM
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We spoke to a lawyer who looked through the CO and informed us that it is meant to mean that DH pays for the trip to get the boys and BM pays for the trip to get them back.

When DH informed BM of this, she decided she couldn't afford it and is moving back. (This is the very short version of a very long story, btw, lol)

Anyway, in the texts she also informed DH that she was still going to be in contact with her DH (that she had said she was divorcing but apparently now is not). He was fired from his job a few weeks ago for causing a really bad wreck. He was then placed in a medically induce coma in order to detox and she says he is now "clean".

However, DH doesn't trust this (nor do I). Is there anything that can be added into a CO in regards to this? Can the judge order that she not have the boys around him? We have the texts as proof of all of this ... but I'm not sure how much of this is actually going to matter.

by on Sep. 28, 2013 at 11:35 PM
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Tigress22304
by Platinum Member on Sep. 28, 2013 at 11:46 PM

Can't I just stick my foot up in her ass?!

And yeah I can say that considering I know the full story. Just beat her (non-existant) brains in.


RaniNY
by on Sep. 28, 2013 at 11:48 PM
Wtf was he taking that required a medically induced coma to detox him from??
andie646c
by Silver Member on Sep. 28, 2013 at 11:50 PM

You go right ahead, lol. I'm still in shock that they are coming back! I really thought she was going to fight him on everything but wow ... it was the shortest fight they've ever had. I seriously think her coming back has nothing to do with how expensive her half of plane tickets are and everything to do with her wanting to be back with that husband of hers. She was just looking for ANY excuse to come back other than the truth and DH gave it to her.


Quoting Tigress22304:

Can't I just stick my foot up in her ass?!

And yeah I can say that considering I know the full story. Just beat her (non-existant) brains in.




andie646c
by Silver Member on Sep. 28, 2013 at 11:50 PM

As far as we know, he was on Meth.


Quoting RaniNY:

Wtf was he taking that required a medically induced coma to detox him from??



annabl1970
by Gold Member on Sep. 28, 2013 at 11:50 PM
My thoughts too


Quoting RaniNY:

Wtf was he taking that required a medically induced coma to detox him from??

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annabl1970
by Gold Member on Sep. 28, 2013 at 11:51 PM
Ugh
You are right not trusting your SD near him,


Quoting andie646c:

As far as we know, he was on Meth.



Quoting RaniNY:

Wtf was he taking that required a medically induced coma to detox him from??





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RaniNY
by on Sep. 28, 2013 at 11:53 PM
Holy crap! Id do whatever I could to keep my kid away from HIM!


Quoting andie646c:

As far as we know, he was on Meth.



Quoting RaniNY:

Wtf was he taking that required a medically induced coma to detox him from??





andie646c
by Silver Member on Sep. 28, 2013 at 11:57 PM

Yeah, BM has said, "We aren't moving back in together until he can prove he can pass a drug test"

But ... it's not that hard to trick a drug test! And he lied to her for over a year about the drugs. Her DH's ex wife called my DH about a year ago "anonymously" to tell him that SF was on drugs but there was no proof so there was nothing we could do. Now he supposedly won't be living with them but BM has made it clear that she will still be around him and in contact with him.

So, it's tricky and I don't know much about the courts to know if they will even care ... her text was something along the lines of "Just so you know, DH and I are still married and he is still my husband so I will still be communicating with him" 


Quoting annabl1970:

Ugh
You are right not trusting your SD near him,


Quoting andie646c:

As far as we know, he was on Meth.



Quoting RaniNY:

Wtf was he taking that required a medically induced coma to detox him from??







andie646c
by Silver Member on Sep. 28, 2013 at 11:58 PM

We are trying, DH is supposed to call the lawyer and find out what we can do ... but I have a feeling it won't be much since SF isn't going to be living with BM (supposedly).


Quoting RaniNY:

Holy crap! Id do whatever I could to keep my kid away from HIM!


Quoting andie646c:

As far as we know, he was on Meth.



Quoting RaniNY:

Wtf was he taking that required a medically induced coma to detox him from??







RaniNY
by on Sep. 28, 2013 at 11:59 PM
Good luck!


Quoting andie646c:

We are trying, DH is supposed to call the lawyer and find out what we can do ... but I have a feeling it won't be much since SF isn't going to be living with BM (supposedly).



Quoting RaniNY:

Holy crap! Id do whatever I could to keep my kid away from HIM!





Quoting andie646c:

As far as we know, he was on Meth.




Quoting RaniNY:

Wtf was he taking that required a medically induced coma to detox him from??











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