We spoke to a lawyer who looked through the CO and informed us that it is meant to mean that DH pays for the trip to get the boys and BM pays for the trip to get them back.
When DH informed BM of this, she decided she couldn't afford it and is moving back. (This is the very short version of a very long story, btw, lol)
Anyway, in the texts she also informed DH that she was still going to be in contact with her DH (that she had said she was divorcing but apparently now is not). He was fired from his job a few weeks ago for causing a really bad wreck. He was then placed in a medically induce coma in order to detox and she says he is now "clean".
However, DH doesn't trust this (nor do I). Is there anything that can be added into a CO in regards to this? Can the judge order that she not have the boys around him? We have the texts as proof of all of this ... but I'm not sure how much of this is actually going to matter.