So I have DD12 and DS10 full time. They don't see BF at all. Then I have SD14 that visits every other weekend so only twice a month.
We live in a 3 bedroom house so the 2 girls have to share a room. We have bunk beds set up for now to give a little more space. They each have a dresser of their own and share the closet. My DD has the top bunk and now wants to split them so hers can be on the floor. It is doable but I would have to get rid of SD's dresser. She really doesn't have much clothes in it anyways. My original thought was take the dresser out and place it in my hallway to my bedroom and have her get her stuff from there but decided to think of a better solution knowing that DH would be upset at this. So my suggestion was to take SD's clothes from the dresser and place them in the closet, she has shelves on her side of the closet that they would fit on. I suggest this to DH and he is livid, he says that it is SD's room as well. I do understand that but she is only there every other weekend and has little to hardly any stuff at my house.
Am I really being a jerk about this and should just make my daughter keep it the way it is when she is the one that is there full time ?
Any of you go through this and what did you do ? Suggestions ?