As you know I am BM (also CP). GF of almost 5 years & I have not had the best of relationships over the years (since finding out she was sleeping with my now ex & got pregnant by him). After much prayer & forgiveness I have finally been able to have civil converations with her- pretty much at drop off & pick up (I take them to & from their dad's apartment- she lives there too).
Now here's where I need prayer. My 17yo DS has his final high school soccer game of his senior year (regular season- doesn't count tournaments) next Thursday. DS told me this past Tuesday that ex, GF, & their son showed up (I couldn't make it). So I text ex & asked if GF was going to be there. I said I don't care but I wanted to be prepared & not caught off guard. He text back & said they want to come & I said it's cool.
Here's my problem. My mom & dad are going too. They have supported DS finacially in soccer since he was 4yrs old. They have every right to be there & DS wants them there. DS also wants my ex to be there (even though ex is not his bio-father). My parents HATE my ex. I mean my mom's blood would boil if it could when she thinks about him! And of course, they hate GF as well just for her role in the divorce.
I don't think I'm going to tell my parents the ex & GF will be there. Chances are my parents will leave at half time- they really only want to go to see the Senior recognition before the game. I know my kids would probably want to sit with their dad that night too (not an issue for me). But I'm sure my parents will want the kids to sit with them too! UGH such a diaster waiting to happen!!!