Well this year SS14 started high school and this Saturday will be the first year he is going to homecoming with his girlfriend. This also happens to fall on our weekend, which is fine, I am so excited for him!!
Anyway so BM texts SS14, tells him that he has to get "ready" at her house, not ours and she has his homecoming tickets. She wouldn't allow him to bring them here, for whatever reason is unknown to me.
DH is upset because BM is insiting on SS14 to come to her house and get ready there. I kind of understand where she is coming from because it is her oldests first dance, but DH feels like he is getting the shaft yet again because she is demanding that DH bring SS14 to her house to get ready. He feels like since she did this last year with his first real formal dance, when he was in eigth grade, he should be allowed to have this dance to bond with his son. I mean the kid brought all his clothes for this dance to our house, so I am thinking SS really did want to get ready at our house, but I digress.
He asked for my opinion, I told him instead of Mom & Dad making demands on where SS should get ready, maybe they should just ask him. I know what DH is going to do so its really a moot point, but man I feel bad for SS14 right now because I know he feels like he's caught in the middle. And there is nothing that I can do about it :(