Update: My son not invited to sister-in-laws wedding
Update. The wedding is tomorrow and none of us are going!
have been married for 2 years. I have 1 son and DH has 1 daughter. We are an inter-racial couple and have had major challenges blending our family. My sister in law is renewing her marriage vows and having the wedding she could not afford to have 25 years ago. DH and SD are both in the wedding. I asked DH if my son was invited and he told me he would have to ask his sister. My son is 16 years old. He later came back and told me his sister hesitated to say yes because of "money". DH told her not to worry about it!
I am so hurt!! I bend over backwards for his family. I gave his sister $100 dollars when she was raising money for her mission trip to Africa last summer and never even got a thank-you. I have always been there for her and feel so incredibly hurt by this.
The weekend of the wedding is our weekend with both kids. I told DH I was not going to the wedding and he is very upset. Any advice would be great!
Am I supposed to leave my 16 years old here alone and tell him he was not invited to the "family" wedding?? No WAY!!!