I'm new to this website, so I'm not sure if I'm doing this correctly. I don't want to talk to my family or friends about this, because I don't want to be judged. Backstory: I married my husband 4 months ago. I have two kids, a girl age 10 and a boy age 6. My husband has 3 daughters, ages 6,5, and 4. As soon as we got married, his 6 YO came to live with us. Her mother said she didn't have a connection with her and that she couldn't "handle" her. Of course I was fine with this. I love his children. I expected there to be problems, but I didn't expect for me to feel the way that I feel. I know she has abandonment/trust issues. But she is constantly in my daughters face, pushing her buttons, and driving her crazy. And she follows me around everywhere, even to the bathroom. If I am hugging my kids, or my husband, she physically inserts herself in between me and whomever it is I am loving on. My husband is in the military, and this requires him to work all the time, and her mother barely ever calls her. I am starting to resent my husband, and I don't know why. And I feel like I am going crazy with my stepdaughter. I don't want to tell my husband how I feel because I feel it would crush him, but he does know that I'm not happy. Any advice?