My 18 yoss posted that BF "physical abused me out of bed", this was the last straw in a series of lies, disrespect and unproductive behavior over the last few months that I have seen,although I suspect that his behavior has been going on for years (one of the reasons BF divorced BM).
BF has told BM that he must post a retraction on FB and apologize in person to both of us (he made a disrespectful remark that dragged me into it as well) before he will be welcome in our home again....
I have two grown daughters and even at their worst teen moments they accepted responsibility and accountability for their actions. My SS has not spokent to BF for 3 wks! BM is allowing him to sit around and play xbox whenever he is not in school (cc) he goes 2 full days and 2 half days/wk, he refuses to get his DL so she is driving him anywhere he wants or needs to go and she is asking BF what the big deal is..."he took it off his fb page..."
We are sick about this and I absolutely support BF and don't feel what he is demanding be done is unreasonable. This young man has never accepted responsibility/accountability that I have seen and blows up any time he is called out for his actions/inactions....
Any ideas ladies?
on Oct. 16, 2013 at 8:59 AM