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what makes you a step mother

Posted by on Oct. 21, 2013 at 10:44 AM
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Well im not married yet.  but im engaged  i do take care of his 9 year old daughter  24 hous a day i cook clean make sure everything tooken care of im momma every day. But he will not recongize me as her step mother  until we are married. I do everything for the child  home work i wash her clothes, make sure im up at 5 in the morning to get her on the bus. Im home for her to get off the bus  i do it all. What would you all think about that . How would you all feel about that? Would you be upset or not ? I live in his home Her real mother is not around but on every other weekend never calls her  to check on her at all.

by on Oct. 21, 2013 at 10:44 AM
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Pero3
by on Oct. 21, 2013 at 10:46 AM
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All of this doesn't make you a stepmother (the woman married to her father) ... what it makes you is a fool!

So why hasn't he proposed yet? And in what context does he voice his view?

baparrot2
by Platinum Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 10:47 AM

You are only dad's girlfriend. He is correct.

pritchett
by New Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 10:49 AM

he has proposed to me  and yes it does make me her step mother i take care the child, Her real mom done.

pritchett
by New Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 10:52 AM

i am his fiance nto his girlfriend

leegirl_jm
by Ruby Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 10:52 AM

The marriage makes Dad's wife a stepmother.

pritchett
by New Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 10:54 AM

no  you are the fool  im his fiance

pritchett
by New Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 10:55 AM

No the woiman who loves and takes care ofthe child likeher own is what makes her the step mom.

faerie75
by Platinum Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 11:03 AM
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Technically you aren't. However if it bothers you so much tell him to do all that stuff then since you aren't required to.
pritchett
by New Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 11:03 AM

Im not tryingto sound rude but yall all dont know half of what i do for the chilld.

Pero3
by on Oct. 21, 2013 at 11:03 AM

To become a stepmother in the legal sense, you require a marriage certificate.

Once married, you are a stepmother, and it is irrelevant whether you wash, clean or cook for the child, tuck it into bed, get it up etc.



Quoting pritchett:

no  you are the fool  im his fiance



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