Well im not married yet. but im engaged i do take care of his 9 year old daughter 24 hous a day i cook clean make sure everything tooken care of im momma every day. But he will not recongize me as her step mother until we are married. I do everything for the child home work i wash her clothes, make sure im up at 5 in the morning to get her on the bus. Im home for her to get off the bus i do it all. What would you all think about that . How would you all feel about that? Would you be upset or not ? I live in his home Her real mother is not around but on every other weekend never calls her to check on her at all.