Recently SM and I have had some disagreement about something and she questioned my parenting in a extremely passive aggressive way, not really going to get into that . However BF is deployed. SM texted me some BS and I emailed BF instead of her , simply because I had no intention of feeding the fire ( But yes I really wanted to tell her off)
This isn't the first time something like this has happened . SM and I are very opposite she plays damsel in distress very well me not so much I haven't got the energy. I get a response from him and he calls the next day, about it I know how stressed he is during deployments what SM is complaining about is pure BS, I know it , he knows it... He just sounds defeated by her actions since deployment started. I actually felt sorry for him , I know he chose her and this is his bed to lay in but a small part feel bad for him.