Total Votes: 109
hell no. she gave up custody... she would never have kept the kids from him. Too much work!
No. If anything, she was too "giving" as she would drop the kids off at his place on her time without first discussing with him if he'd be able to watch them or would be home.
Not before me, but after she got married she did.
To be fair, DH is currently keeping the kids from her.
I voted no because he was allowed full access to ss once he was born
SD12 (who we all know isn't his bio kid) wasn't allowed to visit with DH for about 2 yrs total from the time BM got pregnant til SS was a little over 1 yrs of age. Then DH was allowed to have SD during the school year for weekends/holidays but then she wasn't allowed over during the summer.
Summer visits didn't start until after he and I were dating.
My DH became CP before I met him. I had to answer "yes", however, because before then (and before me), she did keep the kids from him. They were her leveraging tool of choice against him, his parents, and her own parents. "Do what I want, or I'll take the kids away!" Addict logic/manipulation.
BM willingly left SD with DH when SD was born. BM walked, and saw SD a few minutes here or there, but wasn't a solid part of her life.Once BM found out DH and I were getting married things changed drastically and she wanted another chance with DH. He said no (obviously). A month after we were married DH let BM take SD for the day, and BM moved 300+ miles away and refused to let DH have any contact. DH knew BM was with her mom, but couldn't prove it, as it came down to his word versus BM's mom's towards the police when he tried to serve BM custody papers (prior to this time there was no CO, VERY stupid on DH's part). DH had to hire a PI, and the PI found BM living with her mom. By the time they went to court, it was 2 full months.Since a CO has been put into place BM has no kept SD from DH.
Yes, for a short period, but he had already resolved that issue before I came on the scene....
And considering how my ex is, if HE could resolve that issue, it really makes me wonder about some other guys...
no, my dh had custody before we got together, she did however not see her kids for years and blamed me for that.
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