my stepdaughter used to be like my real daughter ,till the day she accussed my oldest son of raping her. she then recunted her story .she was 6weeks pregnant and did not want her parents to know that she was having sex. i tried talking her out of having a abortion ,but in the end her father and her went behind my back and got a abortion,knowing full well how i was very strongly against abortion. she was in her graduation year and did not want her freinds to see her pregannt.she did not want to walk down graduation being pregnant. 2 years later she got pregnant and had a beautiful girl. her boyfreind is a bum who has not worked a day in his life. my husband and I are always fighting over him paying for her bills. heclaims that she is a girl and deserves his help.on the otherhand when ever i try to help my children he gets upset ,because he says they are boys and should fend for them self,s. this week are argument was because I told his daughter she was worthless. I know i should have not said that. but she got me upset with her facebook comments that her family is the car club her and her bump belong to.she did not even call her dad till 7 pm on fathers day because she was to busy celebrating fathers day with her car club. and she never comes to see him .he is the one who drives to see her to pay her bills. my husband claims that he feels guilty because she was not raised with him what do i do ? how do i let him know that she is just their for his money and nothing else.? plus now she is pregnant again.