What if something happened to your husband or for moms, if it happened to you, how would you notify BM/ex, and the kids? Do you have a plan in place?
Today got me thinking because my ex travels a lot mostly Mondays and Fridays through the LAX airport. With the shooting, my first thought was, I hope he is ok. (Kind of)
But then I started wondering, what would happen if something happened to him. Would someone contact me? Not that I personally need to know but.. I am the mother of his child and I am the custodial home ... It is his weekend... Surely it would be important to let me know because someone would need to tell our child.
Would you want to be the one to tell the child that something horrible has happened to their father/mother or would you let the BP tell them? Or a grandparent?
We don't have a plan in place in case something happens to me. It's something I am going to bring up to dh this weekend. I personally would want my husband to tell dd if I passed or if I was in some horrible accident and was in the hospital. But if she were with her father, I would want my dh to contact bF and have bf tell her. It would be devastating - even dead my heart would break because if I were to die, my husband likely would never see my child again until she is 18. I'm betting they wouldn't even let her attend my funeral :(