BM moved in August 2012 and gave DH her address in October 2012 here she lived with a guy and his two kids, but refused to take over night visits with SD there because there was no room for SD. She lived there until around end of May/beginning of June when she moved to another state (but was only about 20 minutes away), she gave DH that address is July, she said it wasn't a good place to have visitation with SD because it was a 1 bedroom place and there was no room for SD.
In August she moved again, this time to about 5 miles away. This was a 2 bedroom place she was sharing with a friend, and she did take vistiation with SD there, and SD slept on the couch. BM just gave DH her address today, but says, she's going to be moving again soon. She says that this time she will finally have her own 1 bedroom place and SD will be able to sleep on the couch.
Each time she's moved she's told DH, "This move is going to provide SD more stability."
BM also told DH that she has some serious health concerns that may end up being cancer, and she wanted to update him in case it is cancer so that he's prepared to have that discussion with SD. This is the second or third time that she's made weird claims about possibly having cancer. BUT, I've also been getting a LOT of calls from the local hospital for BM (which is weird, because they're calling my cell phone number).
As much as I don't like BM, I REALLY hope and pray she doesn't have cancer and this is another false claim or that if it is a ligitamate possiblity that the tests all come back that she's OK.