So as many of u know bm allowed sd9 to drive her car and sd had an accident got a black eye and hasn't gone to see bm sence. She's suppose to go Friday but tonight I had to take sd to see a behavior health specialist they told me she has to do 3 days a week of intensive out patient therapy. CPS is taking there sweet ass time getting a hold of bm and telling us what they are going to do so I finally talked dh into allowing me to call family court and seeing if there is anything that can be done while we wait for DFS because even he is staying to understand why I don't fell safe sending her back to bm until we know what the state is going to do. My only question is who does he call about this. I told him he has to make the calls because he has final say and he asked me to ask on here who to call our to call around tomorrow and see then give him a few numbers. We don't have a lot of money and our attorney said 1500 to do it. I know u can't put a number on a kids safety but when u don't have it what do u do? We are still working on this but my poor sd went to bms for the weekend and came back saying her uncle is blaming her for the car accident and she is saying it's all her fault. I told dh and he agreed that she needed to talk to bm and bm needs to tell her straight forward that it is not her fault. She needs to be the adult and take responsibility for this so sd doesn't hold this guilt in.
on Nov. 4, 2013 at 10:16 PM