Soo, this morning, dh was talking to ss about a bad grade he received on a class assignment. He's usually a straight A student, but was distracted during class and didn't finish. Dh was talking to him about what happened and what we can do to not have it happen again. It wasn't a scolding or yelling, just a quiet conversation. During the conversation, ss was playing with items on the kitchen table, spinning around in his stool, making designs with his fingers on the table and placing his head down on the table. Dh said he could care less about the "nervous fidgeting". I think those behaviors are disrespectful and rude. It's not my place to say anything to ss, but I remember being a kid and having the crap beat out of me if I pulled attitude like that. What do you think?