I am 21 and have a 14 month old daughter with my husband. He has an almost two year old with his ex and it has been a rollar coaster within our family. I love my step son to death but it seems for the most part everyone on my husbands side focuses on him and not my daughter also. I have been struggling for a while to find my role in his life and no one i know seems to know an exact answer. I feel like a built in babysitter and when it comes to any decisions it is not my place to say. My biggest problem right now is he has been getting violent with my daughter and she has gotten really hurt. I have tried talking to my husband but he brushes it off like I hate his son. That is not at all the case I just fear for my daughter right now. I could really use some advice!