I am at a loss for words, but here is the newest
My husband yesterday received a healcare bill for his DD that was sent to his place of employment. Which was sent to his Base Commander at the Air Force Base. This is a healthcare bill for an ear app that took place 3 months ago while visiting her grandparents in Montana. My husband's ex MIL...They took my SD to the Dr due to her having an earache.
Why was my husband not notified of her Dr app. by either BM or grandma? Why was he NOT notified until the bill is being sent to collections for Non payment? Why was this bill sent by MIL to my husband's place of work and NOT her daughter's address instead? Why did she not run my SD healthcare insurance when taking her in. So my husband will need to pay the entire now and some how get his portion from BM later some how!!
My husband is not trying to get out of the bill, that's besides the point. It's not that much anyways. The point here is MIL took my husband's DD to Dr, doesn't run healthcare insurance card. Which I'm sure she had b/c BM sent their Military ID's with them on this vacation. At the Dr MIL puts the bill in only my husband's name, not her daughters so it can be sent to her address. BM doesn't mention at all that DD went to the Dr while visiting her grandparents and to expect a bill in the mail. The MIL said she didn't have my husbands new home address and couldn't think of a better place to send the bill other than his work!!! MIL couldn't of sent the bill to her daughter's house and let them figure it out!!! Not to mention, by the time my husband even recieved this bill it's inches away from collections. The problem here is, yest again. He is going to have to pay the entire bill even thoug in the CO it states that BOTH parent's are responsible for 50% of Dr visit's, meds. So then MIL also feels the need to send a rude email to my husbands work email and let him know "he needs to pay this bill" nothing about her daughters portion, just make sure my husband get's his half paid. He's known about the Dr app allof 2 min now!!! Ohhhh I'm wondering who in their right mind automatically brings their grandchild to the Dr and puts the entire bill in ex son/daughter in-law's name? Doesn't run health insurance, then is nasty about getting the bill paid? We are talking about a small amount, but for this MIL to think it's her place to be sending my husband anything at his work, especially a bill. She very well could of sent tis bill to her daughters house, then given it to him. She could of got our new home address and sent it to our house. It's the principle, this isn't the first time either. The BM takes SD to Dr and some ow my husband get's the bill when BOTH of them are responsible to pay half. Not my husband paying 100% of it!! He pays healthcare premium's every month, when does BM have to step up and take financial responsibility? She also sends school lunch invoices for $10 home with the girls expecting my husband to pay. So what does her CS go towards? Demands $40, half of what was spent for school supplies for a 1st and 2nd grader. Right, and that price didn't include for new back packs, lunch pale's and jackets. We bought those too:)
Anyway's sorry just rambling...