Basically, dd3 fell and had stitches. She was so brave- didn't cry on the ride to the ER or even during the stitches.
Ss5 flipped out. The nurse were taking time away from getting dd checked in to calm him down, he was hysterical. He's always much more emotional than dd though, so I'm not really surprised he had such an emotional reaction.
Long story short, I decided to go to the store and pick up a stuffed animal as a comfort to dd because she was so brave and still in a lot of pain.
Dh felt that I needed to get ss something as well for being compassionate. I disagreed, because compassion is a behavior we always expect from the kids. I didn't think he needed a toy just for acting like he is being raised to behave. I ended up picking the kids up doughnuts as a treat, ss a small toy (to keep the peace with Dh), and dd got a stuffed lambie from doc mcstuffins- because she really did need a cuddle!
Would you have bought something for both kids or just one?