The Christmas season is almost here and I like to shop early.(I'm late this year) Usually, I just give SD a toy magazine , pencil, and paper and have her go at it making her list. I found a really cute web site this year where you can have the kids send the list on the site and Santa writes them back. Thought it was super cute.
Anyway, the parent tailors the return letter from Santa. SO and I did this together and tailored it for our house never giving it a thought. SD wants to print the letter and bring it to show her Mom. Not the problem at all. I understand. She's excited. It's Santa!!!
The problem is that 1) we used her nickname , which for some reason makes BM go batshit crazy.. 2) We referred to my son that moved to Flordia as her brother. Which is what she calls him. Again, makes BM batshit.
Should I just make an excuse to SD as to why she can't bring it to show Mom or just let her do it and deal with the fall out later?
Im thinking send it because she is so excited about it but I'd like your thoughts.